Living with the Holy Spirit

John 14:16. And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Counselor to help you and be with you forever.


To live a victorious Christian life, we must understand who the Holy Spirit is. Many people know about God the Father and Jesus the Son, but very few truly know the Holy Spirit in a personal and living way. Yet it is impossible to live as a witness of Christ apart from Him, as Jesus said,

But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.” (Acts 1:8)

Who, then, is the Holy Spirit? Why did He come to us? What kind of relationship should we have with Him? And how can we be filled with Him? These are not abstract theological questions but the very essence of our spiritual reality and power.

The Holy Spirit is not an idea, a mystical force, or a religious emotion. He is God Himself, the Spirit of Christ, living in us. When Jesus returned to the Father, He did not leave us as orphans; He sent His Spirit to dwell within us, to guide, comfort, and empower us in all things. The Spirit is the continual presence of the Triune God in the hearts of believers.

In Today’s Word, Jesus promises to send “another Counselor.” The Greek word used here for “another” means another of the same kind. Jesus was revealing that the Holy Spirit would not be a different or lesser helper, but one exactly like Himself—divine, eternal, and equal in nature and power. In essence, Jesus was saying, “I am sending you another of Myself.” The Spirit is not merely a substitute for Christ but His ongoing presence within us—Immanuel, God with us, now dwelling in us forever.

In the ancient world, a ‘counselor’ was an advocate who stood beside another to help, defend, comfort, guide, or speak on his behalf. When Jesus promised to send “another Counselor,” He was describing the Holy Spirit as the One who would come alongside believers to strengthen, counsel, and empower them. He is our Advocate who defends us against the devil’s accusations, reminding us that we are forgiven, justified, and accepted through the blood of Christ. While the enemy seeks to condemn and sow doubt, the Holy Spirit assures our hearts that we are God’s beloved children and intercedes for us according to God’s perfect will.

When you pray, you are not speaking into the air—the Holy Spirit connects your prayer to the throne of heaven. When you pray for someone far away, the Spirit who transcends time and space works powerfully in that person’s heart, working in ways we cannot see. This is the invisible yet living reality of the Spirit’s ministry.

The Holy Spirit is eternal—He existed before creation and will continue forever. Yet the miracle of the gospel is that this eternal Spirit of God now dwells in us. The moment you confessed Jesus Christ as Lord, He came to live within you. He is not a visitor who comes and goes; He abides with you forever!

The Spirit is “a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God’s possession—to the praise of His glory” (Ephesians 1:14). In other words, the presence of the Holy Spirit is God’s seal upon your life, proof that you belong to Him and that His promises are certain. His indwelling, guiding, and empowering presence is the assurance that what God has begun in you, He will surely bring to completion until the day of Christ Jesus (Philippians 1:6).

Sadly, many believers live without awareness of this truth. They try to serve God through human effort and, yet remain spiritually powerless and weary. They know the Bible intellectually but have not experienced the life and power that the Spirit gives through the Word. The key is not more effort but acknowledging and depending on the presence and the power of the Holy Spirit in every circumstance.

If the Spirit who raised Jesus from the dead lives in you (Romans 8:11), how can you remain powerless? It is a contradiction for the children of God to live defeated lives when the Spirit of the Almighty God dwells in them. The Christian life without the Holy Spirit is like a lamp without oil—it may look functional but cannot shine. Thus, we must continually desire the filling of the Holy Spirit, acknowledging that apart from Him we can do nothing (John 15:5).

To be filled with the Holy Spirit means to let Him rule your soul, heart, mind, and body. It is to yield control—to allow Him to fill you with His love and align your will with God’s. Being filled with the Spirit should not be a one-time experience but a continuous lifestyle of surrender. Just as wine can control a person’s behavior, thoughts, and emotions, so the Spirit desires to fill and direct every part of our being (Ephesians 5:18).

When the Holy Spirit fills you, your life begins to change in both visible and invisible ways. Fear gives way to boldness, confusion turns into clarity, and weakness becomes strength. Your prayers—once dry and awkard—begin to move the unseen world as the Spirit intercedes and empowers you. The transformation He brings is not merely emotional but spiritual, reshaping your thoughts, words, and actions to reflect the life of Christ within you.

And when the Spirit overflows in you, evangelism becomes the natural fruit of the Holy Spirit. Just as the early church, empowered by the Holy Spirit, turned the world upside down with the gospel (Acts 1:8), your life too becomes a vessel through which the good news reaches those in darkness.

Living by the Spirit is not about chasing feelings but walking by faith. Whether you sense His presence or not, He is always at work—guiding you into truth, interceding for you with groans too deep for words (Romans 8:26), and reminding you that you are God’s beloved child. Therefore, do not ignore (1 Thessalonians 5:19) or grieve the Spirit (Ephesians 4:30).

Learn to walk with Him moment by moment. When you speak, let Him speak through you; when you act, let Him lead; when you pray, listen for His voice in the Word. The more you acknowledge His presence, the more His reality and power will fill every part of your daily life—fueling a life of witness, compassion, and mission for the glory of Christ.


Prayer. Father, thank You for sending Your Spirit to dwell in me. Teach me to recognize His voice and depend on His power every day. Fill me afresh with Your Spirit, that I may live as Your witness with courage, wisdom, and love. In Jesus’ name, Amen.